WHAT GOES THROUGH A WOMAN'S MIND ON A FIRST DATE?

By Liz C


How safe am I going to be?

Safety is very important, am I meeting a nutter!
At least with online dating I have the opportunity to chat and evaluate different reactions to different subjects and comments. I am also more in control of where we meet up and where we go.

What do I wear?

What look would be the best? Which outfit should I choose? How should I do my hair? Sexy and attractive, but not giving the wrong impression.


Do I offer to pay my share?

What would be expected of me? I usually offer but I would think that he was a penny pinching git if he accepted!


What do I think about the way he is dressed?

He should have given some thought to the way that he looks and smells. Hair must be clean and nails and hands must be clean and well groomed. It is a real turn off to see bitten nails or dirty hands and nails. Long nails are just as bad and are really creepy.
A nice aftershave is a real turn on!


Do you 'go all the way' on the first date?

No, unless things have gone REALLY well! I wouldn`t expect him to ask either. However a good kiss at the end of an evening that has gone well is always very sexy, and a good sign for the next date! It is important that he kisses well. There is nothing worse that being swallowed, or being covered in spit at the end of the kiss.
Obviously it is a good idea to make sure that you have used a breath mint, and I would expect the same from my date!


How to arrange the next meeting?

You get a feeling, if it went well then it is pretty certain. It is great being online because if you need time to consider or are not sure then a chat on-line to arrange the next meeting is always an option.

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WHAT GOES THROUGH A MAN'S MIND ON A FIRST DATE?

By Liz C

Is Online Dating Easier?

Definitely! If the on-line chats have gone well before the date, then you already know what you have in common. You don`t feel you are meeting a stranger. It definitely helps with the self-confidence. I also means that you can ask questions online that are more difficult to ask face to face, and easier for your date to answer. It takes the pressure off!

Do you take condoms on a first date?

Yes, I wouldn`t automatically expect to use them but I always take one. It is a responsible way to act. How do you spend your time getting ready for a first date? Grooming is very important. I would expect my date to have made an effort so I would too! Bathing and making sure that I am nice and clean and tidy down there is Important. After all I would expect my date to be tidy and have waxed! I make sure that my nails and hair are clean. Girls look at nails. After all if she is looking at your hands and nails and thinking, `he’s not bringing those near me!’ It is not a good start, is it? What do you notice first? Smile, bum, if she has made an effort! Making an effort shows that they would like the date to go well, and that the on-line chat was not just a joke! How would you expect the date to end? A kiss, if you have got on well, a full on kiss would be nice!

How would you expect her to dress?

I would want her to look sexy but not tarty. I like something nice to look at but I don`t want everyone looking. I would like to imagine breasts and legs. To much make-up is a real turn off. I like looking at someone who is sexy but I try not to get caught doing it. What do you talk about? It makes it easier if you have been chatting on-line. You have had the opportunity to bridge the gap and find some common ground, so it is a bit like meeting someone you already know a bit about. It is a good idea to have exchanged pictures, so that there are no horrible surprises! Should you ask to see her again at the end of the date? If you would really like to and you feel that things have gone well. If you are not sure of her response or not sure about your feelings then, you always have the safety net of arranging things on-line again. Much easier to handle when you are not face to face!

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COMMUNICATION

By Liz C

Communications takes many forms:


We are communicating with each other all the time.

Of course online communication with Adult Dating 'online' is easier as a means of meeting as it takes the face to face pressure out of the communication.

Meeting new people and introducing yourself can be very stressful, and it is sometimes difficult to say and act the way that you would like to.

These chat up lines are an example


Are you a parking ticket?
Cause you have `fine’ written all over you!


Do you believe in the hereafter?
Well then I suppose you know what I am hereafter!

Do you have a plaster?
Cause I have just scrapped my knee falling for you!

Do you have any raisins?
No! Well how about a date?


Not exactly the best way to start a relationship!


BODY LANGUAGE is another way of communication, appearing to be relaxed and at ease in a situation. Making eye contact, standing up straight, not crossing your arms gives an open relaxed appearance, listening and paying attention to the person that you are communicating with can be very sexy and appealing rather than interjecting and trying to dominate the conversation with your own opinions.

It is very off putting when the conversation is completely one-sided. After all you are there to learn about and discover each other.

Focus on the person that you are with. Don’t keep looking at your own reflection in a mirror, or window and DON’T SCAN THE ROOM FOR A BETTER PROSPECT!

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